The rules of "Casual Dress"

At the tender age of sixteen, the Refashionista was heard to state, "Always dress well because you never know who you might meet." These words till hold true today. There is nothing wrong with dressing in casual clothes but when one leaves the house, even to get the newspaper, it is important to remember that someone you care to impress may just wander by. It is therefore important to remember the rules of casual dress. Here are some tips and scenarios to consider before leaving home.

1) The bad hair day:
You roll out of bed with only a few moments to spare before you must run out of the house... Keep a great, stylin' hat handy. Ladies, the right headband or scarf may also do the trick. Really short hair can get away with the purposefully messy look if you use the right product. Long hair can be pulled back but may need to be accessorized with a headband, clips or a scarf. Even if you are just running out for the newspaper, give your hair some thought. There is always the option of pulling a hood gracefully over your head to make it look purposeful. Why bother? What if Barrack Obama just happens to be in the neighborhood (LOL)?

2) The sick or tired day:
You just can't manage more than sweats. Ok, that's acceptable but they should be clean, pressed and well-fitted. Sweats can be super-cute when done right. Match the shoes with the outfit. Avoid Crocs and Birkenstocks at all costs unless they are "cool." Also, avoid clothes with stains or holes unless you are painting, cleaning or doing yard work.

3) The importance of shoes and accessories:
Make sure your shoes and accessories match with the outfit, even if you are going casual. Think about color and style as you choose your shoes and accessories. Make sure the quality of your shoes and accessories also match your outfit.

Go bravely into the world of casual dress but please do so with these three tips in mind. Until next time: happy dressing...

Age and occasion appropriate fashion

Today The Refashionista was browsing at Target when she saw a woman looking at an adorable skirt. The Refashionista could not help but to comment, "That skirt is so cute."

The woman then replied, "Do you think my daughter would like it? I am trying to decide between this one (she held up another, longer but still very cute skirt) and this one, "she said indicating the one we were both looking at.

"How old is she?" I queried.

"She is in 7th grade."

"Oh, get her that one, " I said pointing to the longer skirt. "I'm a school teacher and the other one is still a little grown up for 7th grade."

"Thanks," the woman exclaimed. "I see you are thinking like a mom."

In truth, I was not, I was thinking like a teacher. My students often comment, "Miss, you never like what I wear." There they are wrong. I actually covet many of their cute outfits but as I frequently explain, some clothes are for the club and some are for school. A woman does not need to put her bosom out on a platter all the time, especially when she is only fourteen and spending the day at school. There is an age for most styles but there is also a time and a place. It is ok to look adorable at school and display a sense of fashion (even with a limiting dress code) but school is not the place to show off the goods.

Again, truth be told-- if I had a sixteen year old daughter, I would not let her out of the house dressed like a "hoochie." I think makeup in moderation is ok. Tight pants and skirts above the knees are ok too but hanging the girls out is just plain "slutty" and that is not the image that I would want for my daughter. Hanging the rear out is also unacceptable in my book. Here I go on another soap box... While this is in especially poor taste for young girls, it is really just in poor taste. Save the extreme cleavage, booty shorts and 7 inch stilletos for the bedroom where they belong. Celebrate your bodies all you want ladies but do it with class!

The Refashionista also feels strongly about age and occasion appropriate dress. Do not rock the midriff, if you are under 18 or over 40 unless you have a rockin' body too. Do not sport a super-mini skirt unless you are under ten (and wearing leggings or tights)or you are over eighteen. I'm just sayin'. Even then, there is a time and a place for such things. Do not wear clothing that hugs your fat rolls. It is not hot or sexy. Skin-tight clothing is only for the super-skinny or those with athletic build. Accentuating a few curves is good but watch yourself and always get a second opinion. Overall, you get my drift. It is important to be mindful in all life decision making and what you wear or don't wear is no exception to this rule. Think when you dress. Do you really want to leave home looking like that? The Refashionista will save the rant on overly-casual dress for another day... Until then, keep it age and occasion-appropriate.

Just messin' around

This is the Refashionista's latest watercolor made while messing around with some children's watercolors. It now lives at her older brother's house on the fridge with the kid's work.

New look

Even the refashionista needs a makeover sometimes...

Refashionista branches out

Recently Denver Refashionista took a break from refashioning clothes to dabble in other mediums. The photos included are watercolor paintings. These were photo copied onto cardstock to create greeting cards and post cards. If you must have one, please email and we will work a deal.
nadjatizer@comcast.net

Dress Refashion

This is the latest Refashionista creation. The dress was made by combining a tank top and a skirt and then adding a sash. All items in this refashion are used.